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Tuesday, August 12, 2025

Philemon 8-25 = August 8

Paul’s Request for Onesimus


Philemon 8-25

Intro Questions

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  • God is ... What do we learn about God in this passage?
  • We are ... What do we learn about people in this passage?

  • I will ... What has the Holy Spirit revealed to us in this passage? How can I apply it to my life this week?

  • You can ... Who do you know who needs to hear this? Feel free to share with others by social media links at the bottom of this.







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Vs. 16 
MORE THAN A SLAVE (PHILEMON 1:16)
Roman law in some respects treated slaves as persons but also viewed them economically as property. While slaves could hold property and buy their freedom, they also could be beaten and interrogated under torture. In the rare case where a head of a household was murdered by one of his slaves, all of his slaves would be executed. Thus, the term “beloved brother” (Philemon 1:16), as Paul calls Onesimus, indicated something more than a slave.

Onesimus was probably a household slave, the only type of slave addressed in Paul’s letters, which were written to urban congregations. Household slaves had greater opportunities for social advancement than did free peasants, and, in prominent households, often became powerful. Indeed, some noble women even married slaves of Caesar, thereby becoming slaves, to increase their social status! By saving money on the side, household slaves often purchased their freedom, and, with help from their former slaveholders, sometimes attained social prominence and wealth.

Slaveholders would send their trusted slaves, especially the more educated ones, on errands, often with money. Occasionally a slave chose to escape rather than return home, dangerous as such a venture was. Such may be the situation faced by Onesimus.

Roman law required Paul to return Onesimus to his master Philemon, or else face severe punishment. Paul does not advise Philemon to receive back Onesimus as a slave; he invites Philemon to embrace him as a brother. The letter to Philemon took the form of a “letter of recommendation,” in which a person of equal or higher status asked a favor for a person of lower status.

Escaped slaves, once recaptured, normally received severe punishment. One option for the slave was to seek out an advocate who would beseech the slaveowner on the slave’s behalf. In one situation, a close parallel to Paul’s letter, a Roman writer requested clemency for an escaped slave. Paul, however, asks not merely for clemency, but for Onesimus’s freedom.

Vs. 18
POLITICS & GOVERNMENT
In the Roman Empire, slaves were not permitted to marry, and any children they did have belonged to their owners. Slaves were at the service of their owners, male or female, who were free to punish or kill any slave who “wronged” them (Philemon 1:18). Even though there were few slave revolts, the fear that slaves would revolt or harm their owners was always present.

Philemon 1-7 = August 8

Thanks for Philemon’s Love and Faith


Philemon 1-7

Intro Questions

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  • God is ... What do we learn about God in this passage?
  • We are ... What do we learn about people in this passage?

  • I will ... What has the Holy Spirit revealed to us in this passage? How can I apply it to my life this week?

  • You can ... Who do you know who needs to hear this? Feel free to share with others by social media links at the bottom of this.

Note: Paul's letter to Philemon was carried by Onesimus for Paul.




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We will be studying The Book of Philemon, brotherly love, and three similarities between what Paul did for Onesimus and what Jesus did for us.  
Love and Helping Others. Philemon 1 https://virtualbiblestudy.com/lessons/philemon/philemon-bible-text-new-american-standard-bible-nasb/

Prison Epistles
Christ-like Forgiveness for Good Relationships
Philemon 1-25


"Sharing Christ, Knowing Christ" -- “I pray that you may be active in sharing your faith, so that you will have a full understanding of every good thing we have in Christ.”(Philemon 6)

Every follower of Christ is called to share the good news, yet the vast majority of Christians fall way short in this area. We are commanded in Mark 16:15 to preach the good news, “Go into all the world and preach the good news to all creation.”

You would think that being a carrier of good news would make it easy to share with people. One of the reasons I think Christians fall short in this area is the belief that you can be aloof with the gospel message to others with no effect on yourself.

The verse above casts a different light on sharing your faith. Your personal growth and relationship with Christ will actually be stunted without sharing the good news with others. Conversely sharing your faith, witnessing, and living out the Christian life results in a greater knowledge and understanding of God’s work in you. You should be motivated to share the good news knowing that it opens the gates of knowledge to more fully realize everything you have in Christ. This moves sharing the good news from far off and unattached to up close and personal.

Sharing the good news gives God the opportunity to reveal more of His kingdom. God will show you where He has been alive and active in your life, while making His ministry and purpose more clear. Turning a self-centered Christian walk into a compassionate, caring lifestyle opens you to a greater filling of the Spirit. In Acts 5:42, you see how the disciples passionately shared the good news of Christ, “Day after day, in the temple courts and from house to house, they never stopped teaching and proclaiming the good news that Jesus is the Christ.”

They proclaimed Christ in a hostile environment that threatened their very existence, yet they boldly proclaimed Jesus no matter the consequences. They did this because witnessing is circular. Stepping out in faith gives God the opportunity to speak in and through your life. Allowing God in allows Him to give you a deeper understanding of everything you have in Christ resulting in a greater passion to grow and share Christ. How exciting to not only know Jesus better, but to also better see His active work in you! 2 Corinthians 9:12-15“This service that you perform is not only supplying the needs of God's people but is also overflowing in many expressions of thanks to God. Because of the service by which you have proved yourselves, men will praise God for the obedience that accompanies your confession of the gospel of Christ, and for your generosity in sharing with them and with everyone else. And in their prayers for you their hearts will go out to you, because of the surpassing grace God has given you.” (NIV)

Opening Questions — Get Us Thinking:
  • Mending fractured relationships. Recall a time when you were successful restoring a broken relationship. What were some of your fears in approaching the situation?

Philemon 1
1Paul, a prisoner of Christ Jesus, and Timothy our brother,
To Philemon our dear friend and fellow worker— 2also to Apphia our sister and Archippus our fellow soldier—and to the church that meets in your home:
3Grace and peace to youa from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.

Thanksgiving and Prayer
4I always thank my God as I remember you in my prayers, 5because I hear about your love for all his holy people and your faith in the Lord Jesus. 6I pray that your partnership with us in the faith may be effective in deepening your understanding of every good thing we share for the sake of Christ. 7Your love has given me great joy and encouragement, because you, brother, have refreshed the hearts of the Lord’s people.

Paul’s Plea for Onesimus
8Therefore, although in Christ I could be bold and order you to do what you ought to do, 9yet I prefer to appeal to you on the basis of love. It is as none other than Paul—an old man and now also a prisoner of Christ Jesus— 10that I appeal to you for my son Onesimus,b who became my son while I was in chains. 11Formerly he was useless to you, but now he has become useful both to you and to me.
12I am sending him—who is my very heart—back to you. 13I would have liked to keep him with me so that he could take your place in helping me while I am in chains for the gospel. 14But I did not want to do anything without your consent, so that any favor you do would not seem forced but would be voluntary. 15Perhaps the reason he was separated from you for a little while was that you might have him back forever— 16no longer as a slave, but better than a slave, as a dear brother. He is very dear to me but even dearer to you, both as a fellow man and as a brother in the Lord.
17So if you consider me a partner, welcome him as you would welcome me. 18If he has done you any wrong or owes you anything, charge it to me. 19I, Paul, am writing this with my own hand. I will pay it back—not to mention that you owe me your very self. 20I do wish, brother, that I may have some benefit from you in the Lord; refresh my heart in Christ. 21Confident of your obedience, I write to you, knowing that you will do even more than I ask.
22And one thing more: Prepare a guest room for me, because I hope to be restored to you in answer to your prayers.
23Epaphras, my fellow prisoner in Christ Jesus, sends you greetings. 24And so do Mark, Aristarchus, Demas and Luke, my fellow workers.
25The grace of the Lord Jesus Christ be with your spirit.

Research Questions — “Dig Deeper” to find God’s Will
  1. God is ... What do we learn about God?
  2. We are ... What do we learn about people?
  3. What do we learn about Philemon's character and hat qualities in Philemon does Paul commend (vv. 4-7)?
  4. Having described Philemon's loving character, Paul appeals to him on the basis of love (v. 9). Why is love so essential for mending a fractured relationship? How does this prepare the way for Paul's plea in verses 8-10?
  5. Given the seriousness of the crime committed by Onesimus, what impact will his return have on Philemon's household? On Paul's relationship with Philemon? On Onesimus himself?
  6. Does the fact that Onesimus has become a Christian lessen the seriousness of his crime? Why or Why not?
  7. Paul reminds Philemon that he could "order" him to do what he ought to do (v. 8). If we lack love for a person, why must we still be willing to forgive and accept him?
  8. What is radical about Paul's view of Onesimus (vv.10-18)? In what ways has Onesimus changed since running away from Philemon (vv. 10-16)? Why is a willingness to change an important step toward reconciliation?
  9. Paul in some ways functions as a mediator. Given Paul's concern and need for Onesimus, why does Paul return Onesimus, why does Paul return Onesimus to Philemon, anyway? Why doesn't Paul exert his apostolic authority, declare Onesimus free, and keep him as a partner in the Gospel?
  10. What do you think the chances are that Philemon will do what Paul asks? In what way would Philemon be right to refuse Paul?
  11. That this letter was kept and included in the Bible indicates that Philemon did welcome Onesimus as a brother. How would their slave/master relationship be changed? (Remember Colossians 3:11, 22--4:1)

Reflective Questions — Live it today.
  1. What principles in this letter could you use for mending a fractured relationship (vv. 4-7)? How could doing so cause you to grow in new areas?
  2. Paul intervened to restore these two brothers in Christ. When might we need the help of a friend or counselor?
  3. Like Onesimus, do you have something you need to return to and make right? Do you have something you need to return to and make right? Do you have someone like Paul who can help you do that?
  4. When do you feel obligated to forgive someone: When they confess their sin? When they later change their behavior? When someone else intercedes for the offending party? For whom might you serve as a "Paul" in bringing about reconciliation?
  5. I will ... What has the Holy Spirit revealed to you in this passage? How will you apply it to your life this week?
  6. You can ... Who do you know who needs to hear this?
  7. How does this equip us be a better disciple and help empower us to “make disciples”?

Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. John 15:13













Life of Paul - Paul's Letter to Philemon

Life of Paul - Letter to Philemon



Possible Date: 61 to 63

Scripture: Philemon

NOTE: Paul wrote all four books while in Rome as a prisoner. Philemon received his letter via Onesimus who was the subject of the epistle.

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As Paul indicated, the letter to the Colossians was to be delivered by Tychicus and Onesimus about A.D. 62, during his imprisonment at Rome (Acts 28:16–31). . Another letter, of special significance to Onesimus, is also being sent. Before coming to Rome and being converted by Paul, Onesimus had been a slave of a Christian named Philemon. Onesimus (whose name means ‘useful”) had run away from Philemon and had evidently taken some money or property belonging to his master. Paul now writes to Philemon on behalf of Onesimus and asks that Philemon accept Onesimus back as a brother in Christ. The letter is an insightful study of personal relationships among Christians and contrasts the freedoms that come when one is under bondage to Christ.

Philemon probably lived in the Lycus Valley where Colosse and Laodicea were located (see Colossians 4:15). He was a close friend of Paul, indebted to him spiritually, and a helper in his ministry (Philemon 1:1, 19). Onesimus, Philemon’s slave, had run away and been converted by Paul. Paul offers two reasons for writing this letter to Philemon: 
(1) an appeal for him to receive Onesimus as a brother in Christ (1:10–17)
(2) a request for him to prepare a guest room for Paul’s coming visit (1:22)

The letters to Philemon and to the Colossians were possibly written by Paul at the same time. Paul described himself both as a prisoner (Philemon 1:1, 9, 23) and as being aged (1:9). Many of the people mentioned in Philemon are also mentioned in Colossians: Archippus (Colossians 4:17), Onesimus (Colossians 4:9), Epaphras (Colossians 1:7; 4:12), Mark, Aristarchus (Colossians 4:10), Demas, and Luke (Colossians 4:14). Onesimus and Tychicus (Colossians 4:7–9) were the bearers of these letters.



NIV Study Bible Intro: Philemon









THE "PRISON LETTERS" TO PHILEMON



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NoteAn earlier imprisonment, either in Ephesus around A.D. 54 or 55 or in Caesarea, has also been suggested as the time of Paul’s writing (see “The Letter to the Philippians” at Philipppians 1:1). Ephesus is closer to Colosse than is Rome, thus the close proximity of Ephesus would make more likely both the capture of the runaway slave Onesimus, as well as Paul’s own hopes to visit Philemon in the near future (Philemon 1:22).