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Saturday, February 3, 2024

Proverbs 3:1-35 Trust in the Lord with All Your Heart = Week 04 - Saturday

Trust in the Lord with All Your Heart

Proverbs 3:1-35


Reminder: Pray to God to set your heart right as you engage His word. The text you are about to study was not written to you but is written for you. So, before applying we must ask the following questions:
  • What did it mean to the original reader or original audience?
READ THE SCRIPTURE(Multiple times & translations and notice the words that standout)
Biblegateway (NIV) (My choice of all-round site. Great app, better on computers or on phone)
StepBible (ESV) (Great on phone or computer with good resources.)


Topics:
#Hashtags
#Kindness, #Truth, #Long Life, #Peace, #Trust in God, #Honoring God with our Substance, #Prosperity, #Security, #Happiness, #Blessing
Compassion and Charity
God's Sovereignty and Discipline
Happy Is The One Who Finds Wisdom
Righteous Living
Role Of Wisdom In Creation And Society
The blessings of finding wisdom
The discipline of God towards those he loves
The importance of fearing the Lord and turning away from evil
The significance of treating others with kindness and generosity
The value of wisdom and understanding
Treat Others Fairly
Trust and Obedience to God
Trusting in God and not in one's own understanding
Wisdom And Piety
Wisdom and Understanding
Wisdom Brings Happiness
#Wisdom


Potential Sermon Titles
Don't be wicked and get punished.
Follow God's instructions and prosper.
Obey your parents and be blessed.

Intro Questions to get us thinking:
  • What nicknames were you given as a child? How did you get them?
  • How do you gauge success: Earnings? Education? Toys? Good name? Leisure-time? 

ESV Text with Highlights
#God
#People = The author - traditionally believed to be King Solomon
  • The reader or listener - originally intended for Solomon's sons but applies broadly to all readers
  • God
#Time =
#Place = The exact location isn't specified in Proverbs 3. Proverbs is traditionally understood as wisdom literature of ancient Israel.
#Obedient faith
#Sin
#Key Idea

Proverbs 3

Trust in the Lord with All Your Heart

My son, do not forget my teaching,
    but let your heart keep my commandments,
for length of days and years of life
    and peace they will add to you.

Let not steadfast love and faithfulness forsake you;
    bind them around your neck;
    write them on the tablet of your heart.
So you will find favor and good success
    in the sight of God and man.

Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
    and do not lean on your own understanding.
In all your ways acknowledge him,
    and he will make straight your paths.
Be not wise in your own eyes;
    fear the Lord, and turn away from evil.
It will be healing to your flesh
    and refreshment to your bones.

Honor the Lord with your wealth
    and with the firstfruits of all your produce;
10 then your barns will be filled with plenty,
    and your vats will be bursting with wine.

11 My son, do not despise the Lord's discipline
    or be weary of his reproof,
12 for the Lord reproves him whom he loves,
    as a father the son in whom he delights.

Blessed Is the One Who Finds Wisdom

13 Blessed is the one who finds wisdom,
    and the one who gets understanding,
14 for the gain from her is better than gain from silver
    and her profit better than gold.
15 She is more precious than jewels,
    and nothing you desire can compare with her.
16 Long life is in her right hand;
    in her left hand are riches and honor.
17 Her ways are ways of pleasantness,
    and all her paths are peace.
18 She is a tree of life to those who lay hold of her;
    those who hold her fast are called blessed.

19 The Lord by wisdom founded the earth;
    by understanding he established the heavens;
20 by his knowledge the deeps broke open,
    and the clouds drop down the dew.

21 My son, do not lose sight of these—
    keep sound wisdom and discretion,
22 and they will be life for your soul
    and adornment for your neck.
23 Then you will walk on your way securely,
    and your foot will not stumble.
24 If you lie down, you will not be afraid;
    when you lie down, your sleep will be sweet.
25 Do not be afraid of sudden terror
    or of the ruin of the wicked, when it comes,
26 for the Lord will be your confidence
    and will keep your foot from being caught.
27 Do not withhold good from those to whom it is due,
    when it is in your power to do it.

28 Do not say to your neighbor, “Go, and come again,
    tomorrow I will give it”—when you have it with you.
29 Do not plan evil against your neighbor,
    who dwells trustingly beside you.
30 Do not contend with a man for no reason,
    when he has done you no harm.
31 Do not envy a man of violence
    and do not choose any of his ways,
32 for the devious person is an abomination to the Lord,
    but the upright are in his confidence.
33 The Lord's curse is on the house of the wicked,
    but he blesses the dwelling of the righteous.
34 Toward the scorners he is scornful,
    but to the humble he gives favor.
35 The wise will inherit honor,
    but fools get disgrace.

 








OBSERVATIONS(Reflect on the topic and build the concept the writer is trying to communicate to the original audience)
ebible (NLT) (Best for having Bible sections divided by "pericope" or sections by thought)
Bible Project (NLT) (Helpful videos and instructions for the bigger picture)
Thematic Bible(Books and Chapters Structure)
Bible Hub = Outline, Themes, Topics, People, Locations, and Questions

Proverbs 3 stresses the importance of wisdom and teaching it to one's children. It also teaches about the consequences of folly and wickedness.
Proverbs 3 is all about wisdom. First, it tells us to seek wisdom and understanding above all else. Then, it goes on to say that wisdom will lead us down the path of life and help us to avoid evil.
The Lord gives wisdom, and from His mouth come knowledge and understanding. He stores up riches for the righteous and provides protection for the blameless. His path is straight, and His Word is true. He is a shield to those who walk according to His will.
Proverbs 3 is a collection of wise sayings that teach about living a good life. Some of the topics include: being honest, having integrity, being kind, being patient, and having self-control.


Trust in the LORD with All Your Heart
The Pathway to Wisdom: A Study of Proverbs 3

Proverbs 3 is a timeless guide filled with valuable insights on life. It encourages us to pursue wisdom, trust in God, live righteously, and treat others with kindness. As we embrace these truths, we can expect to experience God's favor, protection, and blessings.

Section 1: The Call to Remember Wisdom (Verses 1-4)

These verses encourage us to not forget the teachings of wisdom, but to keep them in our hearts for long life, peace, and favor with both God and man. They emphasize the importance of steadfast love and faithfulness.

Section 2: Trusting in God's Guidance (Verses 5-6)

These famous verses urge us to trust in the Lord wholeheartedly and not lean on our own understanding. We are called to acknowledge God in all our ways so that He may direct our paths.

Section 3: The Fear of the Lord (Verses 7-8)

This section stresses the significance of humility and the fear of the Lord. It advises us not to be wise in our own eyes but to fear the Lord and turn away from evil, promising it will bring health and vitality.

Section 4: Honor God with Wealth (Verses 9-10)

These verses instruct us to honor God with our wealth and firstfruits, promising that doing so will lead to prosperity and abundance.

Section 5: The Blessing of Divine Discipline (Verses 11-12)

This section reminds us that God's discipline is a sign of His love, just as a father disciplines the son he delights in.

Section 6: The Value of Wisdom (Verses 13-20)

These verses extol the value of wisdom, describing it as more profitable than silver and more precious than rubies. It brings long life and peace to those who embrace it.

Section 7: The Path of Righteousness (Verses 21-26)

Here, the reader is urged to maintain sound wisdom and discretion. It brings safety, security, and freedom from fear.

Section 8: The Practice of Kindness and Truth (Verses 27-32)

These verses encourage us not to withhold good from those to whom it is due when it is in our power to act. They instruct us to avoid envy and strife, for the Lord detests the perverse but blesses the dwelling of the righteous.

Section 9: The Wise and the Foolish (Verses 33-35)

The chapter concludes with a contrast between the fate of the wicked and the blessing of the wise, emphasizing that wisdom brings honor and life.

Proverbs 3 is a powerful chapter within the book of Proverbs that emphasizes the profound value of wisdom, understanding, and righteousness. The chapter offers insights on various life aspects from trusting in God, kindness, and charity, to God's discipline and the fear of the Lord, serving as a guide for righteous living.


What are some of the things that wisdom does for the person who has it?
How can we know the will of the Lord if we don't have wisdom?
What does it mean to "fear the Lord"?
What are the benefits of fearing the Lord?
What does it mean to "lean not on your own understanding"?
What does "wisdom" mean in this passage?
What does it mean to "depart from evil" and why is it important to do so?
Why is it important to walk in obedience to the Lord?


STUDY RESOURCES (This takes some work and here are more resources than you can go through completely)
StudyLight (LEB) (Great site with commentaries by Burton Coffman)
NETBible (New English Translation) (Great for original text information)
BibleHub (HCSB) (Good on computer or app/phone with lots of well-organized information.)
BlueLetter  (KJV) (A variety of resources and good on Phones / better on Computers)
Literal Word (NASB) (Works well on a smartphone or computer + for searching for words like a printed concordance)
Biblia.com (NCV) (Great on a computer especially if you have a logos account)
KnowingJesus (Phone / Computer and great for comparing translations)

  • God is ... What do we learn about God in this passage?
  • We are ... What do we learn about people in this passage?
  • How does this passage strike you: (a) The ramblings of an old man? (b) The insight of a philosopher? (c) The logic of a scholar? (d) The warm entreaty of a concerned father? Why?  
  • What three sections do you observe (introduced by "My son")? What instructions, benefits and exhortation accompany that lead-in address? Within each section, what verses best sum up what the teaching is all about?  
  • How does one know if God is trustworthy (vv. 5-6)? Does such faith involve a "blind leap"? Or is faith predicated on understanding based on sound teaching (vv. 1-4)? Why is that?  
  • Who makes it possible to have wisdom (see 2 Corinthians 3:5-6)? Why is this the only trustworthy wisdom?  
  • "Poetic parallelism" is a literary device wherein the second line or verse repeats, extends or contrasts with the first. What evidence of each kind of parallelism can you find here?  
  • A good name (honor and reputation) is highly prized in our culture. How does this chapter suggest you gain it (vv. 4,32, 35)? How might you lose it?  
  • This chapter introduces us to the first use of short, isolated, seemingly unrelated bits of wisdom called "proverbs." We tend to seize on these "promise" verses, either hopefully or critically, but often out of context. Verse 10 is a case in point: What is this promise based on? What does it mean to honor the Lord with your finances: Gratitude? Trust (v. 5)? “Tithing” from the cream of the crops? Investing in the Lord's work?  
  • How does the Lord's discipline (vv. 11-12) relate to his blessing? What other blessing is to be prized besides the material one (vv. 13ff)?
  • How do you understand the concept of 'wisdom' based on Proverbs 3?
  • What does Proverbs 3:7 say about fearing the Lord
  • What does Proverbs 3:8 say about being wise and understanding
  • What does Proverbs 3:5-6 say about trusting in the Lord with all your heart and mind
  • What does Proverbs 3:13-14 say about blessedness and prosperity
  • What does Proverbs 3:15-16 say about guidance and counsel
  • What does Proverbs 3:9-10 say about honoring the Lord with your possessions
  • What does Proverbs 3:11-12 say about wisdom and understanding
  • What does Proverbs 3:17-18 say about wisdom and well-being?
  • What does it mean to trust in the Lord with all your heart and not lean on your own understanding? How can you apply this to a current situation in your life?
  • How can you balance the fear of the Lord with a loving relationship with Him?
  • How can honoring God with your wealth look like in today's context?
  • How do you respond to the discipline of God according to verses 11-12? Can you share a time when you experienced God's discipline?
  • What can we learn about the value of wisdom from this chapter? How does it compare with worldly riches?
  • How can you apply the principles of kindness and truth from verses 27-32 in your day-to-day life?
  • What are the practical ways to show kindness to others as recommended in verses 27-30?
  • How does the comparison between the righteous and the wicked in verses 33-35 impact your perspective on life?
  • How does the promise of peace to those who find wisdom inspire you?
  • In what ways have you experienced God's guidance when you acknowledged Him in all your ways?
  • How can we balance humility and confidence in today's society as verse 7 suggests?
  • What is the connection between wisdom and health as described in verse 8?
  • How does the promise of prosperity in verses 9-10 align with the reality of poverty and wealth disparity in the world today?
  • How does the concept of divine discipline affect your understanding of God's love?
  • How can the virtues of wisdom and discretion bring safety and freedom from fear in contemporary society?
  • How does the wisdom of Proverbs 3 challenge our society's understanding of success?
  • What are some practical ways to maintain steadfast love and faithfulness in our relationships?
  • How does God's blessing on the dwelling of the righteous in verse 33 encourage you in your walk with God?
  • How can you apply the principles of Proverbs 3 to enhance your daily life and decisions?
  • What does it mean to "Honor the Lord with your wealth and with the firstfruits of all your produce"
  • What does it mean to "lean not on your own understanding"
  • What does it mean to "walk in the way of the Lord"
  • What does it mean to "acknowledge Him in all your ways"
  • What are some of the benefits of living a life of wisdom
  • How can we practically apply the principles found in Proverbs 3
  • Why is it important to "fear the Lord"
  • What does it mean that "wisdom" will "bestow well-being"?


APPLICATION(God wants us all to arrive at action, life-changing faith)
Heartlight (Great for practical application of scripture)
The Message (MSG) (An easy-to-read paraphrase that helps some with application)

Thesis: The pursuit of divine wisdom as characterized in Proverbs 3 is not merely an intellectual endeavor but a heart-issue that requires the fear of the Lord as its starting point and humility in our approach to life.

Introduction: Discovering how wisdom in Proverbs 3 transcends mere intellect and transforms our hearts.

1. The Fundamental Nature of Wisdom: A Heart Issue
    A. Proverbs 3:5-7 emphasizes trusting in the Lord with all your heart and leaning not on your own understanding.
    B. This passage shows that the foundation of wisdom is a heart fully submitted to God, signifying a comprehensive trust beyond mere cognitive agreement.

2. Fear of the Lord: The Beginning of Wisdom
    A. Proverbs 3:7 advises us not to be wise in our own eyes but to fear the Lord and shun evil.
    B. Associating the fear of the Lord with wisdom highlights that true wisdom starts with a reverential awe and submission to God's sovereign authority.

3. Humility: The Lifestyle of the Wise
    A. Proverbs 3:34 states that God mocks proud mockers but shows favor to the humble and oppressed.
    B. Emphasizing humility, this part suggests that living wisely involves recognizing our limitations and depending on God's guidance and strength.

Conclusion: To embrace wisdom as summarized in Proverbs 3, we need a transformation that starts within our hearts, guided by a profound reverence for God and marked by humility in our daily lives. This sermon invites us to reassess our understanding of wisdom, urging us to engage all aspects of our lives with an attitude of trust, fear, and humility before God. Let us pursue this divine wisdom, recognizing that it is accessible but demands our wholehearted dedication.

  • In what ways do you think wisdom brings well-being?
  • Why do you think it is important to "not despise the Lord's discipline" (v. 11)?
  • Proverbs 3:5-6 talks about trusting in the Lord. What does it mean to you to trust in the Lord?
  • What does it mean to you to "honor the Lord with your substance" (v. 9)?
  • Out of all the virtues mentioned in Proverbs 3, which do you think is the most important? Why?
  • What are some of the ways you think you can acquire wisdom (v. 18)?
  • The verse says that "wisdom is a tree of life to those who embrace her." What does this mean to you?
  • What do you think it means that "wisdom will save you from the ways of wicked men" (v. 23)?
  • Which one of the promises and warnings seem to have "your name" on it (whether you be "my son" or a daughter)? Why that Bone?  
  • With verses 1-2 in mind, what would you say to the saddened parents of a Christian 8-year-old who was killed by a drunk driver? How might your Christian understanding of life help?  
  • Whose name comes to mind as you read verses 27-28: Which charitable organization? Any political action committees? Any unemployed neighbors? Anyone in your small group or church?  
  • How can verses 5-6 help if a skeptic asks you, "How can you believe all those fantasies in the Bible"?  
  • Where have you experienced the leading of the Lord (as in vv. 5-6)? Let someone in your group share their story of God's leading: How does that make you feel? At what points can you relate to it?  
  • What kind of person does the Lord "take into his confidence" (v. 26)? Would you like to be that person? At what price? For whose benefit? How are you doing at not betraying the confidences of your group?
  • How can I help others to benefit from wisdom?
  • What does it mean to me that wisdom bestows well-being?
  • What does it mean to live a life full of wisdom?
  • What are some benefits of having wisdom?
  • What are some things I can do to help others become wiser?
  • How does wisdom help me in my daily life?
  • What can I do to become wiser?
  • How can I tell when I am being wise?
  • I will ... What has the Holy Spirit revealed to us in this passage? How can I apply it to my life this week?

  • You can ... Who do you know who needs to hear this? Feel free to share with others by social media links at the bottom of this.

Extra Proverbs on Topic
#TrustinGodorself
Proverbs 3:5-8
Proverbs 14:12
Proverbs 16:3, 20, 25
Proverbs 18:2, 4, 10
Proverbs 19:3
Proverbs 20:24
Proverbs 21:22
Proverbs 26:12
Proverbs 28:26
Proverbs 29:25

#Wisdom

  • Proverbs 3:1 My son, forget not my law; but let thine heart keep my commandments:
  • Proverbs 3:3 Let not mercy and truth forsake thee: bind them about thy neck; write them upon the table of thine heart:
  • Proverbs 3:5 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. 6 In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.
  • Proverbs 4:23 Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.
  • Proverbs 5:10 [Attend to wisdom] Lest strangers be filled with thy wealth; and thy labours be in the house of a stranger; 11 And thou mourn at the last, when thy flesh and thy body are consumed, 12 And say, How have I hated instruction, and my heart despised reproof;
  • Proverbs 10:8 The wise in heart will receive commandments: but a prating fool shall fall.
  • Proverbs 10:20 The tongue of the just is as choice silver: the heart of the wicked is little worth.
  • Proverbs 11:20 They that are of a froward heart are abomination to the LORD: but such as are upright in their way are his delight.
  • Proverbs 12:8 A man shall be commended according to his wisdom: but he that is of a perverse heart shall be despised.
  • Proverbs 12:20 Deceit is in the heart of them that imagine evil: but to the counsellors of peace is joy.
  • Proverbs 12:23 A prudent man concealeth knowledge: but the heart of fools proclaimeth foolishness.
  • Proverbs 12:25 Heaviness in the heart of man maketh it stoop: but a good word maketh it glad.
  • Proverbs 13:12 Hope deferred maketh the heart sick: but when the desire cometh, it is a tree of life.
  • Proverbs 14:10 The heart knoweth his own bitterness; and a stranger doth not intermeddle with his joy.
  • Proverbs 14:13 Even in laughter the heart is sorrowful; and the end of that mirth is heaviness.
  • Proverbs 14:14 The backslider in heart shall be filled with his own ways: and a good man shall be satisfied from himself.
  • Proverbs 14:30 A sound heart is the life of the flesh: but envy the rottenness of the bones.
  • Proverbs 15:11 Hell and destruction are before the LORD: how much more then the hearts of the children of men?
  • Proverbs 15:13 A merry heart maketh a cheerful countenance: but by sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken.
  • Proverbs 15:14 The heart of him that hath understanding seeketh knowledge: but the mouth of fools feedeth on foolishness.
  • Proverbs 15:15 All the days of the afflicted are evil: but he that is of a merry heart hath a continual feast.
  • Proverbs 15:28 The heart of the righteous studieth to answer: but the mouth of the wicked poureth out evil things.
  • Proverbs 16:1 The preparations of the heart in man, and the answer of the tongue, is from the LORD.
  • Proverbs 16:5 Every one that is proud in heart is an abomination to the LORD: though hand join in hand, he shall not be unpunished.
  • Proverbs 16:9 A man's heart deviseth his way: but the LORD directeth his steps.
  • Proverbs 16:21 The wise in heart shall be called prudent: and the sweetness of the lips increaseth learning.
  • Proverbs 16:23 The heart of the wise teacheth his mouth, and addeth learning to his lips.
  • Proverbs 17:3 The fining pot is for silver, and the furnace for gold: but the LORD trieth the hearts.
  • Proverbs 17:16 Wherefore is there a price in the hand of a fool to get wisdom, seeing he hath no heart to it?
  • Proverbs 17:20 He that hath a froward heart findeth no good: and he that hath a perverse tongue falleth into mischief.
  • Proverbs 17:22 A merry heart doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bones.
  • Proverbs 18:2 A fool hath no delight in understanding, but that his heart may discover itself.
  • Proverbs 18:12 Before destruction the heart of man is haughty, and before honour is humility.
  • Proverbs 18:15 The heart of the prudent getteth knowledge; and the ear of the wise seeketh knowledge.
  • Proverbs 19:3 The foolishness of man perverteth his way: and his heart fretteth against the LORD.
  • Proverbs 19:21 There are many devices in a man's heart; nevertheless the counsel of the LORD, that shall stand.
  • Proverbs 20:9 Who can say, I have made my heart clean, I am pure from my sin?
  • Proverbs 20:27 The spirit of man is the candle of the LORD, searching all the inward parts of the belly.
  • Proverbs 21:1 The king's heart is in the hand of the LORD, as the rivers of water: he turneth it whithersoever he will.
  • Proverbs 21:2 Every way of a man is right in his own eyes: but the LORD pondereth the hearts.
  • Proverbs 21:4 An high look, and a proud heart, and the plowing of the wicked, is sin.
  • Proverbs 21:11 When the scorner is punished, the simple is made wise: and when the wise is instructed, he receiveth knowledge.
  • Proverbs 21:15 It is joy to the just to do judgment: but destruction shall be to the workers of iniquity.
  • Proverbs 22:17 Bow down thine ear, and hear the words of the wise, and apply thine heart unto my knowledge.
  • Proverbs 23:7 For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he: Eat and drink, saith he to thee; but his heart is not with thee.
  • Proverbs 23:12 Apply thine heart unto instruction, and thine ears to the words of knowledge.
  • Proverbs 23:15 My son, if thine heart be wise, my heart shall rejoice, even mine.
  • Proverbs 23:17 Let not thine heart envy sinners: but bethou in the fear of the LORD all the day long.
  • Proverbs 23:19 Hear thou, my son, and be wise, and guide thine heart in the way.
  • Proverbs 23:26 My son, give me thine heart, and let thine eyes observe my ways.
  • Proverbs 24:2 For their heart studieth destruction, and their lips talk of mischief.
  • Proverbs 25:3 The heaven for height, and the earth for depth, and the heart of kings is unsearchable.
  • Proverbs 25:20 As he that taketh away a garment in cold weather, and as vinegar upon nitre, so is he that singeth songs to an heavy heart.
  • Proverbs 26:3 A whip for the horse, a bridle for the ass, and a rod for the fool's back.
  • Proverbs 27:9 Ointment and perfume rejoice the heart: so doth the sweetness of a man's friend by hearty counsel.
  • Proverbs 27:11 My son, be wise, and make my heart glad, that I may answer him that reproacheth me.
  • Proverbs 27:19 As in water face answereth to face, so the heart of man to man.
  • Proverbs 28:14 Happy is the man that feareth alway: but he that hardeneth his heart shall fall into mischief.
  • Proverbs 28:25 He that is of a proud heart stirreth up strife: but he that putteth his trust in the LORD shall be made fat.
  • Proverbs 28:26 He that trusteth in his own heart is a fool: but whoso walketh wisely, he shall be delivered.

##Self

##Self

 

Wisdom From Proverbs: Self-Destruction

I. Introduction: Last week, we introduced this class as a course on building your life. It is a course about understanding how to live God's way and then, living it Our aim is to take the key areas of your life (self - family - money - work - people) and allow God through the book of Proverbs to make us better.

We will start with self. What has been throughout history the most detrimental, destructive force the world has known?

Possible Answers:

A. Nature: Floods, wind and water erosion, tornadoes earthquakes, hurricanes, etc.

B. War: Think of all the lives that have been destroyed. Families have been broken. Cities have been shattered. Mental scars have been imparted.

C. Abusive People:

What about self-destruction? Perhaps more damage, more total loss, has been seen through the centuries because of self-destruction than any other single item.

Satan's game is to cause you to destroy yourself.

Therefore, before we ever start building, we must first stop destroying ourselves. If you can get past this obstacle, everything else we say will be easy.

II. Self-Destructing Fear:

A.  A.  Common fears that tend to destroy.
    1.     Fear of Poverty
    2.     Fear of ill-health
    3.     Fear of old age
    4.     Fear of death
    5.     Fear of loss of love or loved one
    6.     Fear of criticism
    7.     Fear of failure
B.    Fear destroys confidence, produces worry and makes us indecisive. All of these destroy.

 

III. Self-Trust:

A. How much is enough?

B. Self-trust always results in fear or egotism (pride).

C. Pride becomes just as self-destructive as fear.

  •     Proverbs 16:18-19 "Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall. Better to be lowly in spirit and among the oppressed than to share plunder with the proud."
  •     Proverbs 18:12 "Before his downfall a man's heart is proud, but humility comes before honor."
  •     Proverbs 29:23 "A man's pride brings him low, but a man of lowly spirit gains honor."

D. God's Additional Notes on Pride.

    1. Pride makes you hard to live with. 

  • Prov. 13:10 "Pride only breeds quarrels, but wisdom is found in those who take advice." (Read that carefully. Pride makes you think your opinion is better than all others.)

    2. Pride makes you a liar, or it makes you pretend to be something you are not.

  • Proverbs 12:9 "Better to be a nobody and yet have a servant than pretend to be somebody and have no food."
  • Proverbs 13:7 "The man pretends to be rich yet has nothing; another pretends to be poor, yet has great wealth."
    3. God doesn't like pride. I wonder if it is because pride-filled people don't need God or think they don't need God.
  • Proverbs 15:25 "The Lord tears down the proud man's house but he keeps the widow's boundaries intact"
  • Proverbs 16:5 "The Lord detests all the proud of heart Be sure of this -they will not go unpunished."
    4. Pride filled people praise themselves.
  • Proverbs 25:27 "It is not good to eat too much honey, nor is it honorable to seek one's own honor."
  • Proverbs 27:2 "Let another praise you, and not your own mouth; someone else, and not your own lips."
    5. Beware of Praise.
  • Proverbs 27:21 "The crucible for silver and the furnace for gold, but man is tested by the praise he receives."

 

IV. Conclusion:

No one can win by a life of self-trust. Either he will turn to fear or he will turn to pride. Likely no man can walk the line between the two. Therefore, the verdict is: self-trust is equivalent to self-destruction.

Is there an alternative? Yes.

  • Proverbs 3:5-8 "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him and he will make your paths straight."
  • Proverbs 16:3 "Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and your plans will succeed."
  • Proverbs 16:20 "Whoever gives heed to instruction prospers, and blessed is he who trusts in the Lord."
  • Proverbs 29:25 "Fear of man will prove to be a snare, but whoever trusts in the Lord will be kept safe."

 My favorite:

  • Proverbs 28:26 "He who trusts in himself is a fool, but he who walks in wisdom is kept safe."

Summary:

1.     Self-trust leads to fear. Fear is a primary ingredient of self-destruction.

2.     Self-trust leads to pride. Pride is a certain destruction.

3.     Self-trust leads to ignoring God.

4.     Trust God - Commit your plans to Him. Commit your way to Him. Live as though He is in control. If He is in control, we will not fear (think of David). If He is in control, we know who we are.

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#Wisdom

Wisdom From Proverbs 

I. Introduction: The book of Proverbs is a book designed by God to help us live the best we can. Maybe we can set the stage for the book by the following statements or ideas.

A. God Created Us to Live:

He created us to live happily, peacefully and optimistically. In the book of proverbs, He tells us how simple it is to live well and how to live so as to achieve what we want in life.

B. Life Involves Self - Family - Money - Work - People.

The book of Proverbs deals with each of these areas in a straight-forward simple fashion.

C. Life Has Highs, Lows and a Whole Lot of Ordinary.

How many times have you felt or have had others to say - "I am only existing -not really living"?

D. Life Is a Function of Attitude, Thoughts and Actions.

Attitude is a state of mind or mood. It certainly effects thoughts and actions. The book of Proverbs gives medicine for lives not being lived as they should. I emphasize the statements are simple, straight-forward and full-proof.

II. A Word About Wisdom:

Wisdom has been defined as the ability to apply knowledge. What good is knowledge if it can't be applied? Ph.D.'s have often been accused of having knowledge and no common sense. Wisdom is the common sense that needs to accompany knowledge. Wisdom is the ability to see things as God sees them and deal accordingly.

In the book of Proverbs, we are dealing with knowledge about life. Wisdom from Proverbs, therefore, is the ability to apply basic truths about life. It will involve truth about self, family, money, work, people and many others.

A. Proverbs 1:1-6 Purpose of Proverbs

B. Proverbs 2:1-6 Seek Wisdom With All Your Might.

C. Proverbs 1:32-33, 3:13-18 The Value of Wisdom

What We Will Study -

A. Lesson On Self.
1.   Self-trust
2.   Self-control
3.   Self-destruction
B. Lessons On Tongue
1.   How to use it
2.   How not to use it
C. Families
1.   Parents
2.   Children
3.   Marriage
D. Money
1.   Generosity
2.   Frugality
3.   Poverty
E. Integrity
F. God
1.   Providence for us.
2.   Care for us.
3.   Fear of Him.
G. Taking and Giving Advice.
H. Much more

 






Other Resources:


Discovery Bible Study



Other YouTube Videos

Through the Word = Audio

Articles

Devotions

Stepping Stones

The Lord came to me like a dream one day and asked, "why do you sorrow?"
I answered, "Lord my life is so full of pain, I can't face one more tomorrow."
 
The Lord sat down beside me, and gently took my hand.
He said, "Let Me explain to you, and then you'll understand.
 
Each sorrow is a stepping stone you must surmount each day,
And every stepping stone you climb is a sorrow that's passed away.
 
The road of life is a mountainside, with crevices in which to be caught,
But as you struggle on your way, I, the Rock, will lend support.
 
Every stepping stone you climb, makes spirit and heart grow strong.
Exercising character and faith, this road seems painful and long.
 
The way is paved with stepping stones, to uplift your heart and soul,
Though difficult, they aid your way, to a City paved with gold.
 
I know that you are tired, for I too have walked this way,
My sorrows did they multiply, but I cleared many stones away.
 
I left My Rock to lift you up, I left behind My story.
To give you strength to make your climb, to that special place in glory.
 
And never fear, the Rock is here, you'll never climb this mountain alone
Surmount life's sorrows, continue on, for they are but stepping stones.
 

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not to your own understanding.  In all ways, acknowledge Him and He will direct your paths."  Proverbs 3:5-6


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