Warning Against Adultery
Proverbs 5:1-23
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Warning Against Adultery
5 My son, be attentive to my wisdom;
incline your ear to my understanding,
2 that you may keep discretion,
and your lips may guard knowledge.
3 For the lips of a forbidden woman drip
honey,
and her speech is smoother than oil,
4 but in the end she is bitter as wormwood,
sharp as a two-edged sword.
5 Her feet go down to death;
her steps follow the path to Sheol;
6 she does not ponder the path of life;
her ways wander, and she does not know it.
7 And now, O sons, listen to me,
and do not depart from the words of my mouth.
8 Keep your way far from her,
and do not go near the door of her house,
9 lest you give your honor to others
and your years to the merciless,
10 lest strangers take their fill of your strength,
and your labors go to the house of a
foreigner,
11 and at the end of your life you groan,
when your flesh and body are consumed,
12 and you say, “How I hated discipline,
and my heart despised reproof!
13 I did not listen to the voice of my teachers
or incline my ear to my instructors.
14 I am at the brink of utter ruin
in the assembled congregation.”
15 Drink water from your own cistern,
flowing water from your own well.
16 Should your springs be scattered abroad,
streams of water in the streets?
17 Let them be for yourself alone,
and not for strangers with you.
18 Let your fountain be blessed,
and rejoice in the wife of your youth,
19 a lovely deer, a graceful doe.
Let her breasts fill you at all times with delight;
be intoxicated always in her love.
20 Why should you be intoxicated, my son, with a
forbidden woman
and embrace the bosom of an adulteress?
21 For a man's ways are before the eyes of
the Lord,
and he ponders all his paths.
22 The iniquities of the wicked ensnare him,
and he is held fast in the cords of his sin.
23 He dies for lack of discipline,
and because of his great folly he is led
astray.
Proverbs 5 provides timeless wisdom that speaks to the heart of human relationships and moral choices. It draws a clear line between the immediate allure of temptation and the long-lasting joy of marital fidelity, reminding us of the need for wisdom and understanding in our life choices. Most importantly, the chapter underscores God's watchful eyes, serving as an incentive to live righteously in light of divine accountability.
Section 1: A Call to Wisdom (Verses 1-6)
Solomon urgently implores his listeners to attain wisdom and understanding. He warns of the dangers of the adulterous woman, whose words are captivating but lead to a path of destruction. Her steps, while seemingly attractive, lead away from life's righteous paths.
Section 2: The Perils of Infidelity (Verses 7-14)
The reader is warned to stay far away from the adulterous woman. The disastrous consequences of succumbing to adultery are laid bare, highlighting the sorrow, reproach, and self-degradation it brings.
Section 3: The Virtue of Faithfulness (Verses 15-20)
The advice shifts from warning to the instruction of enjoying love and satisfaction within one's marriage. Marital faithfulness is presented as the joyful alternative to the destruction caused by infidelity.
Section 4: The Watchful Eyes of the Lord (Verses 21-23)
The chapter concludes by reiterating God's omniscience, emphasizing that He sees all deeds and weighs all paths. Those who ignore discipline and wisdom will be caught by their own iniquities, while those who adhere to wisdom will prosper.
In Proverbs chapter 5, the wisdom literature takes on a profoundly personal tone as it explores the intimate dangers of falling into the trap of sexual immorality. The writer, presumably Solomon, uses the chapter to stress the importance of fidelity, understanding, and making wise decisions. He provides vivid illustrations of the dire consequences of immorality and contrasts them with the benefits of maintaining purity within the confines of marriage.
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- In the face of temptation, how can we develop the discipline to remember the long-term consequences of our actions, as suggested in Proverbs 5?
The consequences of adultery extend beyond the immediate, inflicting long-term damage on one’s relationship with God, family, and self.
Introduction: Adultery: A hidden trap that promises pleasure but delivers pain.
1. Adultery corrupts the integrity of one's soul, leading to spiritual alienation from God.
A. Proverbs 5 describes the seductive and cunning nature of adultery, warning that its path leads to death and separation from God's wisdom (Proverbs 5:3-6, 22-23).
2. Adultery fractures the sacred bond of marriage and devastates families.
A. The passage admonishes the reader to rejoice with the wife of their youth and warns against the destructiveness of engaging in adultery (Proverbs 5:18-19).
B. This underlines the value God places on the marital bond and the deep harm caused when that bond is broken.
3. Adultery leads to a loss of honor and resources, affecting one’s self-worth and societal standing.
A. The text warns that engaging in adultery can lead to a depletion of one’s resources and dignity (Proverbs 5:9-10, 14).
Conclusion: Adultery is not just a momentary lapse of judgment, but a serious sin with far-reaching consequences. It alienates us from God, destroys familial bonds, and undermines our self-worth and resources. By adhering to God’s wisdom and seeking his strength, we can safeguard our lives from the hidden snares of adultery, nurturing our relationship with him, our families, and our own selves. We are called to cherish and honor the commitments we make, particularly in marriage, as a reflection of our faithfulness to God.
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